Enough for Me

“And He has said to me, and His declaration still stands, My grace is enough for you, for power is moment by moment coming to its full energy and complete operation in the sphere of weakness. Therefore, most gladly will I the rather boast in my weaknesses in order that the power of the Christ [like the Shekinah Glory in the Holy of Holies of the Tent of Meeting] may take up its residence in me [working within me and giving me help]. Wherefore I am well content in weaknesses, in insults, in necessities, in persecutions, and in circumstances under which I am subject to extreme pressure on behalf of Christ, for when I am weak, then I am filled with ability and power” (2 Corinthians 12:9-10 Wuest).

What God said to Paul he says to me as well, “My grace is sufficient for you” – or, a Wuest renders it, “enough.”  Meaning, it is all I need no matter my needs, my circumstances, my challenges in life.  

Paul was given, by God, a “thorn in the flesh,” a “messenger of Satan.”  This, to say the least, is very much surprising. God would do that? Apparently.  But we must hear the reason:  “to keep me from exalting myself.”  Meaning, God, in giving Paul such grandiose revelations, also so loved him that He, in knowing what such spiritual experiences can do to a man, brought him down to earth by means of some sort of affliction; probably a bodily one.  Paul in turn, praying it would go away, basically received a “No” answer.  Instead, he was to rely upon the grace of God.  

I believe I am led here this morning, to the grace of God, that is, as I too am dealing with an affliction–another one.  There seems to be no let up.  So I went a looking at the grace of God, what it is, and how I too might be relying upon it.  

I learned what I suspected already, that sickness and disease are not from God but from Satan (though God, as in this case, uses both for His own purposes, not always relieving us of our troubles, at least when we want).  Vincent writes, “Satan is conceived in the New Testament as the originator of bodily evil. Thus, in the gospel narrative, demoniac possession is often accompanied with some form of disease” (see Luke 13:16; Acts 10:38, and 1 Corinthians 5:5).  

David, for example, wrote, “Before I was afflicted I went astray; but now I keep Your word.”  

The source of, and reason for, affliction is not the point, however.  Perhaps this should be said before going further:  “Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him from them all.”  This, then, is the real point.  

Out from what then comes the deliverance?  God’s grace.  

Grace, as Vine would define it, is that “friendly disposition from which (a) kindly act proceeds, (it is) graciousness, loving-kindness, (and) goodwill generally; in this respect there is stress on its freeness and universality, its spontaneous character, as in the case of God’s redemptive mercy, and the pleasure or joy He designs for the recipient.”

From my limited knowledge of Scripture and the meaning of both Hebrew and Greek words, I cannot but think of how this word, grace (Greek, charis), and the Old Testament Hebrew word translated loving-kindness (chesed), are nearly one and the same.  The latter means, simply, kindness, which is, according to Webster, “that temper or disposition which delights in contributing to the happiness of others, which is exercised cheerfully in gratifying their wishes, supplying their wants or alleviating their distresses.”  

Sure sounds like grace to me.  

It is by grace we are saved.  It is not from ourselves, but of God.  

In this respect it is indeed God’s love demonstrated to us in a demonstrable way; He has chosen to be favorable to us in saving us, entirely apart from anything we may have or have not done.  

Yet there is another dimension not yet mentioned.  Strong’s defines grace in part as “the divine influence upon the heart, and its evidence in the life.”  So it is by God influencing our hearts and minds that we come to Christ.  It is an inside job.  

All of which we are to rely upon; God’s favorable disposition toward us, which, I might add, is a fact of New Testament Scripture.  Plus, His workings on this inside of us.  He is in us both “to will and to do.”   To want to do a thing, a godly thing, and then have the ability to do it.  

Put in perspective, in the context of a thorn in the flesh any of us might have, God’s grace being enough for us means that the fact of His favorable disposition toward us, His love for us, and His presence in us, no matter how we feel or what we may be going through, knowing these things about Him is sufficient for us, and ought enable us to move forward in confidence.  God is for us, so who or what can be against us?  If God has allowed a thing, even sent a thing, it is for our good.

Does this means we accept evil?  Acquiesce to sickness and disease?  No!  It means we are to rely upon God’s grace.  Do we fight these?  On all fronts.  Do we pray God remove them, manifest His healing power and virtue?  Yes. Otherwise, Christ was scourged for no good reason–and we know that is not true.  

Relying upon God’s grace means we do not rely on ourselves or others.  It is not what we do, but what He has done.  I think grace always relates to that realm of possibilities that lie way beyond ourselves.  Yet those possibilities, God’s, become ours through faith, and manifestly become ours by reason of His favor.  

It is vital that a man remain fixated on God’s heart and mind toward him.  If we believe anything about God, we must of necessity believe that He is good.  All the time, in every circumstance.  His view of us is a fact, a verifiable and unchanging truth.  We are loved, and the way this shows up is in His kindness toward us.  This is grace. 

It is enough; that is to say, it is sufficient, all we need.  

There was another lesson Paul was learning in his situation:  God’s power is made perfect in our weakness.  This too is grace.  

It is a wise man who understands his frailty; and no matter how spiritual he is, he does not boast in this, but in his weakness.  Understanding and acknowledging your weakness is key to experiencing God’s power.  Seems the weaker we are, the greater God’s power at work in and through us.  Thus Paul writes, “I am well content with weaknesses; I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.”  

Who among us goes about boasting of our weaknesses?  Not many I know of; but the great apostle did.  

Receiving and experiencing God’s grace begins with our sense of need for it.  Pity the man who has no need.  I think this may well be the reason so many experience hardships in life.  It is the goodness of God leading them to repentance.  No man will go to God for salvation if he feels he has no need for salvation.   Nor will he appeal to God for His grace if he has no use for it.  So it is we can thank God we have needs, we can go to Him with these needs.  There is such a thing as the “throne of grace.”  Oh, let me forever dwell there–each and every moment of every day!  

It is in confessing our sin that we are forgiven.  It is in acknowledging our weakness that God’s power is able to get to work in us.  It is when we understand our need, that we are positioned to receive His wonderful grace.  

It is enough for us.  Sufficient.  All we need for each and every moment.  

P. S.  I just have to add this advice from Matthew Henry’s commentary:

“Prayer is a salve for every sore, a remedy for every malady; and when we are afflicted with thorns in the flesh, we should give ourselves to prayer. If an answer be not given to the first prayer, nor to the second, we are to continue praying. Troubles are sent to teach us to pray; and are continued, to teach us to continue instant in prayer. Though God accepts the prayer of faith, yet he does not always give what is asked for: as he sometimes grants in wrath, so he sometimes denies in love. When God does not take away our troubles and temptations, yet, if he gives grace enough for us, we have no reason to complain. Grace signifies the goodwill of God towards us, and that is enough to enlighten and enliven us, sufficient to strengthen and comfort in all afflictions and distresses. His strength is made perfect in our weakness. Thus his grace is manifested and magnified. When we are weak in ourselves, then we are strong in the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ; when we feel that we are weak in ourselves, then we go to Christ, receive strength from him, and enjoy most the supplies of Divine strength and grace.”

On Health

It is a man’s good fortune to have health, and though some may disagree, it is clearly the will of God. 

The apostle John, writing to Gaius, said, “Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers” (“3 John 1:2).  This is the one who identified himself as the “disciple whom He (Jesus) loved.”  That is to say, at least one of three with whom our Lord was the closest.  Having that proximity, observing Jesus in action and hearing His heart, he can be trusted to be conveying it.  So it can be surmised that prosperity and good health represent the heart of Jesus for His people.  

Yet not only for His people, but for all people.  It is said of the Christ that He “went about doing good and healing all who were oppressed by the devil.”  God’s will is not only that all would be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth, but to be healthy and whole in every respect. That many, if not most, aren’t, should point us to the God whose name is, as in Exodus 15:26, Jehovah-rapha–which translated means, “the Lord is our healer.” 

Some of our problems stem from external sources, such as the air we breathe, the water we drink, the jobs we have.  Others can be hereditary, passed down from one generation to another.  And then there is old age; in this era our bodies do not last forever, they eventually wear out and cease functioning.  The bottom line is that all bodily illnesses and diseases, plus deteriorating flesh, is the result of man’s fall; whereupon sin entered the world, and with it death.  

All of it, every sickness, every disease, should serve this one purpose: to turn us to God.  It is indeed helpful to have doctors and modern day medicines and technologies to aid us in healthiness, but not one of these can heal a man; God alone holds that office.  All else are servants of His.  

I note the apostle inserts the phrase in his prayer, “as your soul prospers.”  The benefit of Christianity, among the many, is that our soul is saved and our relationship with God restored.  Internal prosperity comes to us by way of the new birth.  This is simply a matter of course when a man gives his life to Jesus Christ.  Yes, Christians get sick, and some die (well, all die at some point, but you get my drift).  But the point is they can not only lay claim to both the word and will of God, they can appeal to the throne of grace, from which they receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.  

I believe and affirm that in much the same way a man calls upon the name of the Lord in a state of conviction, and the Lord hears him and saves his soul, so also a man may call upon the Lord in any state of ill health and the Lord will come to his aid.  That this is so is seen all throughout the Bible.  

God allows in His wisdom what He could easily prevent by His power.  He allows, for example, the devil to prowl around like a roaring lion, and some even are devoured by him.  Why?  I am not necessarily prepared to answer that, except for that is the way it is.  Does God allow sickness? Disease?  Yes, He does.  He allows man to sin, too; so does that mean He approves of sin?  No, not at all.  He allows both, and there may well be reasons we shall never know this side of heaven, but I am absolutely certain as to what He is after:  our hearts.  Our wills.  Our compete dependence upon Him.  

So it is I pray for my brothers and sisters, that they may prosper and be in good health.  And I take this as God’s will for me too–and I lay claim to it.  If the Lord Jesus went to the trouble–the pain and the anguish–of being scourged for our healing, ought not I receive that?  Lay hold of that?  Believe God for it?  Absolutely.  

Making Room for God

“And she gave birth to her firstborn son; and she wrapped Him in cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn” (Luke 2:7).

There is this scene in the movie The Nativity where, with Mary ready to deliver, Joseph frantically runs from house to house, pounding on doors, hoping someone will open up to him a place for the Christ child to be born.  At the last he goes to the local inn, where he is told there’s no room for them there.   Finally some man point them in the direction of an animal stall, and there the Lord Jesus is born.

It has been like this ever since—meaning, there is hardly room in the hearts of men for the Savior of the world.  Usually, it is only the place of last resort, the place where Christ finds for Himself a home; by this is meant a lowly and humble heart.

The Psalmist writes, “In his pride the wicked does not seek Him; in all his thoughts there is no room for God” (10:4 NIV).  There is room for all manner of others things—careers, academic pursuits, investments, sports, and even good things such as family and friends; but unfortunately, few have room for God.  Even among professing Christians, ‘there is little space in their crowded lives for the God who loves them.

Our Lord said, “Behold, I stand at the door and knock” — that is, He is taking the initiative; He so wants to come in and “dine” with us, He so wants entry into our lives for the purpose of relationship.  Yet few respond, and they do not know what they are missing.

I think if Bethlehem only knew who it was that was to be born there that day things would have been different.  Folks would have been rushing to be the one in whose home the Messiah would be born.  And you would think that people today would welcome Christ into their hearts if they only knew.  Oh but they do know!  Jesus Christ is no secret; there is an awareness of the Christian message such as has never been before.  While secularists seek to wipe all vestiges of God and Jesus from the public square, still there are 100’s of thousands of churches, millions of Christians, hundreds of Christian TV channels, programs, and radio stations.  What is remarkable though is the diminishing space Jesus occupies in the hearts and souls of the populace.

We make room for God by letting Him in—and not just initially.  So many have ‘received’ Jesus at some point in their lives, but that doesn’t mean He occupies much space in them.  The idea is that He take up all the space of the human heart, every nook and cranny.  Of course, it is a process; I know this from personal experience.  But that is just it, it is a process, one we undergo willingly, wanting God to fill us up to the brim, being God totally.

We make room for God by spending time with Him.  The thing is, He not only wants to be with us, He loves spending time with us.  He’s knocking at the door not as some unwanted salesman, but as one who earnestly desires to have dinner with us.  Christianity is relationship; eternal life is not some place on a cloud with a harp, it is knowing the Father and the Son (see John 17).  We get to know Him—we get to know Him!  And this by spending time with Him, the most precious minutes and hours you will ever spend during the course of a day.

We make room for God in our thoughts.  That is, we learn to be thinking not only about Him, but the thoughts He thinks.  In the Bible it’s called renewing the mind.  We come to see things much differently than the way they appear; we grow to have God’s perspective.  If you love someone, you think about him (or her); anyone who has ever been in love understands this.  This too is a process, but oh what a process it is, to have a mind occupied with the One who made me and loves me.

We make room for God by obeying Him—not as some taskmaster, but as one who has our best interests at heart.  Father knows best.  Don’t we as earthly parents command our children for what is good for them?  We tell them not to play in the street.  We command them to stop fighting between each other.  We warn them about touching a hot stove.  God’s rules make for the best of living; in doing what He wants we find a life that far exceeds one lived apart from Him.  Obedience to God is a privilege; without Christ at the center of our hearts it is impossible to do what God wants, as we are without Him still bound by sin.  Obedience to God tells Him we love Him and appreciate what He does for us.

As for me, there is nothing I want more than more of God.  More than anything on the face of the earth I want to have supper with Jesus Christ.  You needn’t knock, Lord—the door is wide open; please do come in and make Yourself at home.  My home is Your home, and my heart is Yours for the taking.

God Delights in My Well-being

“Let them shout for joy and rejoice, who favor my vindication; and let them say continually, ‘The Lord be magnified, Who delights in the prosperity of His servant’” (Psalms 35:27 NASB).

The word is shalom— the Lord delights in the the shalom of His servant.  Most of us understand this particular word as meaning “peace,” and that it does; however, it is much, much broader than that.  It is translated  by multiple different words (though peace or a variant is used over 150 times) and has the overall sense of completeness, soundness, welfare, and peace.  It might well be rendered, “Welfare” (ESV) or, “Well-being” (NIV).  A more comprehensive look at it would be as follows:

Completeness (in number)

Safety, soundness (in body)

Welfare, health, prosperity

Peace, quiet, tranquility, contentment

Peace, friendship

of human relationships

with God, especially in covenant relationship

Peace (from war)

Peace (as an adjective)

—not a bad list, and things I think most folks would want present in their lives, things people pursue all the time although in all the wrong places.

The thing to pick up here is that God delights, not in these things in and of themselves, but when they characterize the life of one of His children.  In other words, it pleases God that His son or daughter possess these qualities.  That is, when you or I are safe and sound, when we’re healthy and prosperous, when we are at peace with God and men, when there is an absence of conflict, this delights God.

I could summarize it this way:  when I am happy, God is happy.

The apostle John conveys this selfsame message when he writes,  “Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers” (3 John 1:2).

It is noteworthy the words “His servant.”  The thing is, I don’t believe God is so pleased when the ungodly prosper, because if you read and understand the Scripture, you will find that, for the most part, the achieve prosperity in all the wrong ways, or with the wrong motives — or, they use what they have for the wrong things.  Non-Christians prosper, for sure, and there are reasons for this; but if I read this right (and I believe I do), then His delight is aroused when it is His servant that experiences the well-being.  I note too:  it is His servant — that is, a man or a woman who serves Him.  This by definition would disqualify the person who professes to believe in God and His Son, Jesus, but who does nothing to demonstrate that faith.  I do think it is God’s heart for that person to prosper, but servanthood—as least as it is seen here in Psalm 35—is the prerequisite.

What else I pick up here is God’s heart.  He is certainly not stingy, and I don’t believe for a moment that He takes pleasure in  a child of His suffering conflict , sickness, and poverty.  I don’t see that anywhere.  I mean, though Jesus “was rich, yet for our sakes He became poor, that we through His poverty might become rich.”  And He doesn’t withhold things from us.  Just one Psalm back we read, “O fear the Lord, you His saints; for to those who fear Him there is no want.  The young lions do lack and suffer hunger;  but they who seek the Lord shall not e in want of any good thing” (34:9-10).  And in the all-too-familiar Psalm, Psalm 23:  “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want. . .”  God’s heart is shalom, and it so pleases Him when His children possess it.

The Greek equivalent to shalom is eirene, and it means essentially the same thing.  Thus, when Jesus greets the brothers holed up behind locked doors and says, “Peace by with you,” He is not only imparting an overall sense of assuring calm, but those qualities that can be best described as well-being.

God is concerned for our welfare, and He is quite happy when we have it.  This is good news, that we’ve a God like this.  It is okay to feel good.  It is okay to enjoy the good things of God; He delights in that.  But let’s make sure we believe this about Him, and let’s be sure to posture ourselves rightly by taking on the attitude of a servant.

If God Lived Next Door

“Take these things away; stop making My Father’s house a place of business” (John 2:16).

How I marvel at these words! How they stir up my insides!  Whereas we know from other passages that God does not dwell in a house made by human hands (Acts 7:48); and, from Jesus’ words just a few more lines down, He spoke of the temple of His body.  Further still, we find out later in the New Testament that each believer’s body becomes a home for the Holy Spirit–still, Jesus here refers to the the physical Temple, the building, as God’s house.  

This isn’t the first time.  As a young boy missing from his family’s caravan, when found in the Temple, He explained, “Did you not know that I had to be in My Father’s house?” (Luke 2:49).  

All of which is to say, God has a house.  Yes, heaven cannot contain Him.  And for sure, He dwells in every Christian.  But He does have a house, too.  And this, in our day, is not less than the church.  

I know, I know, I know…..the church is not a building, but people.  I know that.  But God’s people meet somewhere, typically in a building of sorts; albeit a home, a cathedral, or a tent.  The place where believers meet, that is the church, and that—this is what stirs my soul–is the Father’s house.  

People these days belittle the church.  Even Christians, they do not feel the need, nor do they have the desire, to gather together with other Christians in a place we call church.  Typically, the reasons fall along these lines:  the people are all hypocrites.  All they want from you is your money.  Or, I don’t have the time.  Much of the reason lies in the fact most Christians don’t read the Bible, so they don’t understand that we are told, “Do not forsake the assembling of yourselves together” (Hebrews 10:25).  Perhaps the greatest reason is that they don’t understand that the church is God’s house.  Worse yet, they don’t care.  

By definition a church is simply an assembly of persons.  In fact, is was used even of secular, non-religious meetings.  Yet for followers of Christ, whenever and wherever they gather together, there is a dynamic absent any other assembly on the face of the earth:  the Lord Jesus is there present among them.  

“For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst” (Matthew 18:20).  

Christians who neglect church–assembling together with other Christians–miss out on the Great Attender, Jesus Christ.  Why bother?  The Lord is there!  Yes, God is everywhere.  You can encounter Him in a forrest or field, on your knees or in the shower.  Yet the Lord does not promise His presence in these places; He promises it when there are two or more of you together in one spot.  

By referring to the Temple as “My Father’s house,” Jesus sanctions the physical location of God’s presence.  We, the people of God, are His house (cf., Hebrews 3:6)–when we are gathered together.

As for me, as much as I love the church, today I receive an attitude adjustment.  I do not love her enough.  I have not esteemed the assembly of saints (i.e., true believers) highly enough.  I have not regarded it as the Father’s house.  Today I do.  

I note with interest the balance of our Lord’s words.  He says, “stop making My Father’s house a place of business.”  These days the church in many respects has become big business.  It has business managers, financial experts, marketing and sales departments.  It has huge budgets, needing much cash to support the physical property it owns.  Not that these are not necessary; as the assembly expands, so the needs to accommodate them.  Yet the church is not a business; if it becomes that, the Lord’s rebuke has been issued.  It is a spiritual entity, an organism as opposed to an organization.   And, given God’s thoughts and ways are not man’s, and His kingdom opposite that of the world’s, it is operated completely different.  Sometimes not even making sense.  

Imagine God, maker of heaven and earth, the one who loves you and who sent His Son to die for you–imagine Him living just down the street, even next door.  Imagine Him inviting you to come visit Him.  This, my friend, requires no imagination.  He is doing just this.  He is beckoning you, “Come see Me.  Come to My house.  You who believe in Me, join with others who believe.  Gather together with My people in My house.  This is church; this is where I am.”

When to Pray

When you don’t know what to do, pray.

When you don’t know how to do a thing, pray.

When in the doing of a thing, you become confused, pray.

When you lack wisdom, pray.

When you lack desire, pray.

When you are tired and lacking strength, pray.

When you are afraid, pray.

When you feel anxious about a thing, pray.

When your job is in jeopardy, pray.

When your marriage is in trouble, pray.

When you lack resources, pray.

When you are sick or otherwise in ill health, pray.

When you are stressed, pray.

When you feel hopeless, pray.

When you need vision, pray.

When you do not know which direction to go, pray.

When faced with a decision to make, any decision, pray.

When you are hurting inside, pray.

When you don’t feel quite right–physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually, pray.

When tragedy strikes, pray.

When in danger, pray.

When embarking on a journey, pray.

When your friend has a need, pray–then do what you can to help him.

When your spouse, or your son or your daughter, or your grandchild, or you friend, strays, pray.

Before you eat, pray.

After you eat, pray.

Before you lay you head upon your pillow, pray.

If you wake up in the morning, it is good cause to pray.

If you can see, hear, smell, taste, touch–if you can do anything at all, pray.

If you have food, clothing, and shelter, pray.

If your body works at all, pray.

If you are beginning a thing, pray.

Or ending a thing, pray.

If going to war, definitely pray.

If you come home from war, pray.

If you live in peace, in any degree of it, pray.

If you are under tyranny, pray.

If you are enslaved by anyone or anything, pray.

If you are free, pray.

If you are at the end of your life, pray. 

If you are pregnant, pray.

When giving birth, pray!

When raising that child, those children, absolutely pray.

When you send them off to school, pray.

When you give your daughter to another man in marriage, pray.

While she is growing up, and well before she ever meets the man she will marry, pray.

If you wish to be forgiven, pray.

Or to be free from a person or thing, pray.

If you have lost your way, pray.

If your heart has become hard, and you know it, pray.

Pray that your heart never becomes hard.

If you want to know the truth about anything, pray.

If you have a job, pray.

If you don’t have a job and are in need of one, pray.

If you are doing well, are well-off, pray.

If you have any need whatsoever, or no need at all, pray.

If you think you’ve no need, then you absolutely must pray.  

If and when anything good comes your way–and it always does, pray.

When it storms, pray.

When it is beautiful outside, pray.

When you meet the man or woman of your dreams, pray.

When you are old and decrepit, it is time to pray.

If you can think straight, pray.  

If you have breath in you, pray.

Pray at all times and in every circumstance, and never, ever give up.  

Luke 18:1, “Now He was telling them a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray and not to lose heart.”

1 Thessalonians 5:17, “Pray without ceasing.”

A Good ‘Thing’

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord” (Proverbs 18:22.

Far from being a ‘thing’, and not just any wife, but a “true and faithful” one (AMP), she is an indispensable aid to a fulfilling life.

But it is not as though that is all she is. Despite being designated as a “helper suitable to him” (Genesis 2:18), under New Testament revelation she is a “joint-heir of the grace of life (1 Peter 3:7). So it is that from the perspective of both, a wife, a good one, is a gift from God. And not only this, if a man wishes favor from the Lord, let him pursue–and find–the woman ordained for him.

Today marks Barb’s and mine 48th wedding anniversary, and we both thank the Lord for His wonderful grace in not only keeping us together all these years, but blessing our relationship with each other. It is not as though we are perfect–Barbara nearly is; me, not so much. But the emphasis here is on her, not me. So I continue.

“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is like rottenness in his bones” (Proverbs 12:4).

You can see here the difference between a good wife and a not-so-good one. I thank God He has given me the former. If a crown here signifies honor, splendor, and dignity (Webster 1828)–which it does, then it is apparent how a true and faithful wife embellishes her husband. The Passion Translation puts it like this, “The integrity and strength of a virtuous wife transforms her husband into an honored king.” You could say that she makes him what he is. Or, behind a righteous man is an even more righteous wife. Or, if a man is perceived to be good, it is his wife that makes him so. Which is why a man ought esteem his wife above himself; if he cares for himself, he will care for his wife more so (see Ephesians 5).

“House and wealth are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord” (Proverbs 19:14).

I mentioned this earlier; your wife is a gift from God. Not just any old wife, mind you, but a prudent one. There are others who are not so; whether they are gifts may be questionable. But a sensible wife? She is from the Lord. The NET Bible Notes gives this explanation,

“This statement describes a wife who has a skillful use of knowledge and discretion that proves to be successful. This contrasts with the preceding verse. The proverb is not concerned about unhappy marriages or bad wives (both of which exist); it simply affirms that when a marriage works out well one should credit it as a gift from God.”

They should say, however, that “when a marriage works out well one should credit it” as a “gift from God,” for sure, but also the wife.

A prudent wife is a wise, sensible, and understanding one. She is wise in practice. Cautious but not hesitating. She likely has a heart larger than her husband, and insight keener than his. Which is why a man ought lister carefully to her. It is a proud man, a stupid one, who does not give his wife the time of day.

A woman like this is hard to find–which is why it says she is a gift from God. Proverbs 31:10 puts it like this: “An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels.” A man who puts his pursuits ahead of his wife makes a big mistake. His treasure is not ‘out there’, but under his nose, in his own home. He is a wealthy man who has an excellent wife. Let Him “trust in her, and he will have no lack of gain.” She will do “him good and not evil all the days of her life” (11-12).

I believe I indicated she makes him what he is. Verse 22 of this chapter says, “Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.”

This has been my experience–thank God. Whenever someone congratulates us on our years of marriage, I always say, “It’s her fault.” Why? Because it is. Barbara is the one who holds this thing together. She is the glue of the marriage. Of course, it is God who does it, but He has given me Barb and uses her in sealing this deal.

Finally, a word on marriage. Of course, it is designed by God to be between a man and a woman (thank God!). It is a mysterious representation of God’s eternal plan for the church and the Lord Jesus (again, Ephesians 5). And, it is intended by God to be “as the days of heaven upon the earth” (Deuteronomy 11:21 KJV). Though on my part I have a very long way to go to being the quality of husband Barbara deserves, especially as it pertains to loving her the way Christ does His church, she on her part is well above and beyond in being the kind of wife the Bible describes as a “good thing.” That she is.

The Ordered Life

I am thinking of the ordered life, what that looks and feels like. I am inclined to interpret that as meaning set patterns or certain routines that I follow every day. It was the Lord who said there would an entire reordering of my life. Then He hit the reset button.

If there be anything predictable about God it’s that He can be unpredictable. He shows up when you least expect Him. He says things you would never in a million years anticipate.

I am thinking the ordered life is not a routine one. On the contrary, I am thinking it is exactly the opposite. The ordered life may well be a disordered one. Meaning, instead of predetermined activities and day-to-day patterns of living, you live life unpredictably.  By this I mean you follow the Holy Spirit’s leading.

Jesus said, “The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit.” The wind–or, breath–is of course the Holy Spirit.  If you live life in the Spirit you may not necessarily know where things are coming from nor where things may be headed. But you can be confident that you are always on course when you are following the Spirit.

Gone then are the pressures to be doing thus and such. Absent is the guilt you feel for not doing certain things you think you should be doing.  You are relieved of all the ‘should-a’, ‘would-a’, and ‘could-a’s’ you think must govern your life.  You’re only concern, really your only responsibility, is to follow the Holy Spirit.

This is what we hear the apostle Paul saying in Galatians 5.  From Kenneth Wuest’s translation we read, “Through the instrumentality of the Spirit habitually order your manner of life.”  And, “In view of the fact that we are being sustained in spiritual life by the Spirit, by means of the Spirit let us go on ordering our conduct.”  Or, as our standard renderings would say, “Walk by the Spirit.”

In practical terms this means abandoning the idea that an ordered life equates to doing certain things at certain times, consistently.  It means stepping out of the box of predictability and into the realm of the Spirit.

It’s not that we’re not faithful in the fulfillment of our responsibilities.  I mean, we all must get up and go to work, attend to personal needs, and so forth.  What life looks like here is keeping in step with God. “As many as are led by the Spirit, these are the sons of God.”  It means hearing His voice and patterning your day-to-day accordingly. If we plan, and we must and do plan, it is in and by the Spirit we make our plans.

The Scripture says, “To him who orders his way aright, I shall show the salvation of God.”  That is, if we set our course as that of the Spirit’s, we shall see great and glorious things.

Why Jesus Was Born on Christmas Day

It’s easy to forget that the person whose birth date we celebrate December 25th came for a purpose.  And while I may be saying things that have been said before, I would be remiss if I didn’t recall the reason why this child whom they named Jesus appeared on the scene some 2,000 years ago.

The answer is simple.  It was for guys like me.

You see, I am one of the people this child, when he grew up and became a man, said he came to seek out and save.  “It is not the healthy who need a doctor,” Jesus said, “but the sick.”

An accurate description for a man who despaired of life and had no hope of it ever getting better.  A man who knew he needed God but rejected Christianity and wanted nothing to do with this purported ‘son’ of God.

Yet, for reasons perhaps I’ll never know, I was wanted by him, and somehow, by means even more mysterious, he was able to persuade me that his ways were better than mine, and that what I really needed was a relationship with him.

It was a relief I must say, to realize there was help for this illness I suffered, this disease of the heart.  The cure was this Christ I had resisted.  But now I welcomed him.

What would compel a man who was said to be the savior of the world to come for a person like me?

He came because he was compelled by love.

It was because God loved the world that he sent his son.  Christ so loved God that he came.  Both knew that my deepest need was love.

What an amazing love it is.  Why else would one by whom and for whom the heavens were made and the earth sent spinning in space condescend to such a low estate?

Why would he who was eternal and immortal confine himself to a body that grew hungry and thirsty and felt pain and sorrow and joy?

Why would such royalty stoop to hay and rubble and the smell of animals at the time of his birth?

Why else would this all-powerful being live in relative obscurity for thirty years, knowing who he was and what he came to do, yet keeping it secret until the time came for him to be revealed.

Why else would this one who could call down legions of angels in his defense allow wicked men to beat him and nail his tattered body to a tree?

Why else would this one of a kind allow himself to be cut off from his Father, from whom he received direction for every word and step? “My God, why have you forsaken me?” he cried from the cross.

I tell you that he did it because of love, and he did it for me.

But that’s not all.   Not only was he born on Christmas day to die for sorry souls like me, he came to tell us of a new order, a heavenly one.  “The kingdom of God has arrived,” he said. “You must change your hearts and minds and believe the good news!” (Mk. 1:15, Phillips)

His was a call to people who wanted something better and who recognized their ways to be so far from those of God’s that only a miracle could bridge the distance.  This is what this God in man’s body came to do.

His was a kingdom “not of this world,” the government of which would be his responsibility.  He was called “Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”  His kingdom would grow and grow and never come to an end.

All this love, all this purpose, all this power, wrapped up in a tiny babe, whose mother and father gathered ‘round on a cold winter’s night in a manger because there was no room for them at the inn.

All this, for a man like me, who could never dream of such riches in a million years.

This is why Jesus came.  This is why I remember the day he was born.

The Crucifixion

Among the many deep and limitless meanings of the crucifixion is the simple and most profound truth: a man may approach God.

It is written that, upon Jesus’ immediate death–the breathing of His last breath, His giving up His spirit, the veil of the Jewish temple–that thick veil which separated the holy place from the holy of holies, where God dwelt–was torn in two from top to bottom; signifying this: that the way into the presence of God was now open, not just to the priests or the super-religious, but to all men everywhere, for all time.

Hebrews encourages us in this. In light of what Christ has done the author writes,

“Therefore, brethren, since we have confidence to enter the holy place by the blood of Jesus, by a new and living way which He inaugurated for us through the veil, that is, His flesh, and since we have a great priest over the house of God, let us draw near with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water” (10:19-22).

Men are deceived in thinking that anyone can approach God any old way they wish; that there are many ways to God; that God hears every prayer; that God accepts everyone regardless of how they come. The truth is, there is but one way to God; the prayer God hears is one prayed according to His will; a man is accepted in Christ, and in Christ alone; and the approach to God is only through the veil of Christ’s flesh–that is, His death, burial, and resurrection. This is to say, His shed Blood.

Not one of us is turned away when we come to God the way He has prescribed, the only acceptable way; and in coming, we can be absolutely assured we shall be welcomed with open arms. This is the full assurance of faith the writer of Hebrews says we can have. It is not presumed upon any merit of our own–not our goodness (or lack thereof), not our righteousness (concerning which we do not have), nor based on anything worthy we have done. No, it is on the basis of the Blood of Jesus entirely and alone. We can enter the holy place by the Blood of Jesus. Period.

Our entry was inaugurated. That is, Jesus brought about the beginning of the approach to God.

It was new in that never before, since the fall of man, had a man the right nor the way into the presence of God. This was brand, spanking new.

It was a living way. The truth is, Jesus is alive–He is able to save to the uttermost them that draw near to God through Him, since He ever lives to make intercession for them. He died the death, yes; He was buried, true. But His spirit did not die and, on the third day was united with HIs body and, lo and behold!–we’ve the resurrected Christ!

It is alive in another sense, too. His Blood–the life being in the blood–it still speaks. In a very real sense the Blood is still alive; we see it in chapter twelve of Hebrews. In this snapshot of heaven as it now is, there is God the Judge of all, and Jesus the Mediator, and the spirits of righteous men made perfect, and the church of the firstborn. And then there is the Blood–the Blood is there, right now as I write these words. And it is speaking, it is speaking better things than the blood of Able. It is crying out, “Mercy! Mercy! Have mercy!”

The veil, it says, through which we enter, is Jesus’ flesh. How is that? Simply put, it is but through the broken, crucified body of the Son of God that men have their singular access to the immediate presence of God.

We’re told to draw near with a sincere heart. What is that? An honest one, a true one. Not presumptuous. Not for show (how could that be?). A heart laid open and bared to the One with whom we have to do. One that knows that God knows. You cannot hide anything from God. You come as you are without any pretense.

It’s to be with full assurance. The one thing we can have absolute confidence in is the word of God. What do we have without this? The whims of men and of the world’s thinking. The Bible says we can come, and it says we can come for these reasons; therefore, we can come fully assured–right? Yes, indeed!

There is no ground for apprehension in approaching God if you come in His way. And this is through the veil of Christ’s death on the cross; through, in, and by His shed Blood. No fear of rejection, of punishment, of being turned away. The Throne of Grace is wide open–God says so, so it is. So, you come.

Thus, among the transcendent and indescribable meanings and benefits of the crucifixion, the one–I believe the chief one, is the freedom, the liberty, the joy of approaching God.