Making Room for God

“And she gave birth to her firstborn son; and she wrapped Him in cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn” (Luke 2:7).

There is this scene in the movie The Nativity where, with Mary ready to deliver, Joseph frantically runs from house to house, pounding on doors, hoping someone will open up to him a place for the Christ child to be born.  At the last he goes to the local inn, where he is told there’s no room for them there.   Finally some man point them in the direction of an animal stall, and there the Lord Jesus is born.

It has been like this ever since—meaning, there is hardly room in the hearts of men for the Savior of the world.  Usually, it is only the place of last resort, the place where Christ finds for Himself a home; by this is meant a lowly and humble heart.

The Psalmist writes, “In his pride the wicked does not seek Him; in all his thoughts there is no room for God” (10:4 NIV).  There is room for all manner of others things—careers, academic pursuits, investments, sports, and even good things such as family and friends; but unfortunately, few have room for God.  Even among professing Christians, ‘there is little space in their crowded lives for the God who loves them.

Our Lord said, “Behold, I stand at the door and knock” — that is, He is taking the initiative; He so wants to come in and “dine” with us, He so wants entry into our lives for the purpose of relationship.  Yet few respond, and they do not know what they are missing.

I think if Bethlehem only knew who it was that was to be born there that day things would have been different.  Folks would have been rushing to be the one in whose home the Messiah would be born.  And you would think that people today would welcome Christ into their hearts if they only knew.  Oh but they do know!  Jesus Christ is no secret; there is an awareness of the Christian message such as has never been before.  While secularists seek to wipe all vestiges of God and Jesus from the public square, still there are 100’s of thousands of churches, millions of Christians, hundreds of Christian TV channels, programs, and radio stations.  What is remarkable though is the diminishing space Jesus occupies in the hearts and souls of the populace.

We make room for God by letting Him in—and not just initially.  So many have ‘received’ Jesus at some point in their lives, but that doesn’t mean He occupies much space in them.  The idea is that He take up all the space of the human heart, every nook and cranny.  Of course, it is a process; I know this from personal experience.  But that is just it, it is a process, one we undergo willingly, wanting God to fill us up to the brim, being God totally.

We make room for God by spending time with Him.  The thing is, He not only wants to be with us, He loves spending time with us.  He’s knocking at the door not as some unwanted salesman, but as one who earnestly desires to have dinner with us.  Christianity is relationship; eternal life is not some place on a cloud with a harp, it is knowing the Father and the Son (see John 17).  We get to know Him—we get to know Him!  And this by spending time with Him, the most precious minutes and hours you will ever spend during the course of a day.

We make room for God in our thoughts.  That is, we learn to be thinking not only about Him, but the thoughts He thinks.  In the Bible it’s called renewing the mind.  We come to see things much differently than the way they appear; we grow to have God’s perspective.  If you love someone, you think about him (or her); anyone who has ever been in love understands this.  This too is a process, but oh what a process it is, to have a mind occupied with the One who made me and loves me.

We make room for God by obeying Him—not as some taskmaster, but as one who has our best interests at heart.  Father knows best.  Don’t we as earthly parents command our children for what is good for them?  We tell them not to play in the street.  We command them to stop fighting between each other.  We warn them about touching a hot stove.  God’s rules make for the best of living; in doing what He wants we find a life that far exceeds one lived apart from Him.  Obedience to God is a privilege; without Christ at the center of our hearts it is impossible to do what God wants, as we are without Him still bound by sin.  Obedience to God tells Him we love Him and appreciate what He does for us.

As for me, there is nothing I want more than more of God.  More than anything on the face of the earth I want to have supper with Jesus Christ.  You needn’t knock, Lord—the door is wide open; please do come in and make Yourself at home.  My home is Your home, and my heart is Yours for the taking.

God Delights in My Well-being

“Let them shout for joy and rejoice, who favor my vindication; and let them say continually, ‘The Lord be magnified, Who delights in the prosperity of His servant’” (Psalms 35:27 NASB).

The word is shalom— the Lord delights in the the shalom of His servant.  Most of us understand this particular word as meaning “peace,” and that it does; however, it is much, much broader than that.  It is translated  by multiple different words (though peace or a variant is used over 150 times) and has the overall sense of completeness, soundness, welfare, and peace.  It might well be rendered, “Welfare” (ESV) or, “Well-being” (NIV).  A more comprehensive look at it would be as follows:

Completeness (in number)

Safety, soundness (in body)

Welfare, health, prosperity

Peace, quiet, tranquility, contentment

Peace, friendship

of human relationships

with God, especially in covenant relationship

Peace (from war)

Peace (as an adjective)

—not a bad list, and things I think most folks would want present in their lives, things people pursue all the time although in all the wrong places.

The thing to pick up here is that God delights, not in these things in and of themselves, but when they characterize the life of one of His children.  In other words, it pleases God that His son or daughter possess these qualities.  That is, when you or I are safe and sound, when we’re healthy and prosperous, when we are at peace with God and men, when there is an absence of conflict, this delights God.

I could summarize it this way:  when I am happy, God is happy.

The apostle John conveys this selfsame message when he writes,  “Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers” (3 John 1:2).

It is noteworthy the words “His servant.”  The thing is, I don’t believe God is so pleased when the ungodly prosper, because if you read and understand the Scripture, you will find that, for the most part, the achieve prosperity in all the wrong ways, or with the wrong motives — or, they use what they have for the wrong things.  Non-Christians prosper, for sure, and there are reasons for this; but if I read this right (and I believe I do), then His delight is aroused when it is His servant that experiences the well-being.  I note too:  it is His servant — that is, a man or a woman who serves Him.  This by definition would disqualify the person who professes to believe in God and His Son, Jesus, but who does nothing to demonstrate that faith.  I do think it is God’s heart for that person to prosper, but servanthood—as least as it is seen here in Psalm 35—is the prerequisite.

What else I pick up here is God’s heart.  He is certainly not stingy, and I don’t believe for a moment that He takes pleasure in  a child of His suffering conflict , sickness, and poverty.  I don’t see that anywhere.  I mean, though Jesus “was rich, yet for our sakes He became poor, that we through His poverty might become rich.”  And He doesn’t withhold things from us.  Just one Psalm back we read, “O fear the Lord, you His saints; for to those who fear Him there is no want.  The young lions do lack and suffer hunger;  but they who seek the Lord shall not e in want of any good thing” (34:9-10).  And in the all-too-familiar Psalm, Psalm 23:  “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want. . .”  God’s heart is shalom, and it so pleases Him when His children possess it.

The Greek equivalent to shalom is eirene, and it means essentially the same thing.  Thus, when Jesus greets the brothers holed up behind locked doors and says, “Peace by with you,” He is not only imparting an overall sense of assuring calm, but those qualities that can be best described as well-being.

God is concerned for our welfare, and He is quite happy when we have it.  This is good news, that we’ve a God like this.  It is okay to feel good.  It is okay to enjoy the good things of God; He delights in that.  But let’s make sure we believe this about Him, and let’s be sure to posture ourselves rightly by taking on the attitude of a servant.

If God Lived Next Door

“Take these things away; stop making My Father’s house a place of business” (John 2:16).

How I marvel at these words! How they stir up my insides!  Whereas we know from other passages that God does not dwell in a house made by human hands (Acts 7:48); and, from Jesus’ words just a few more lines down, He spoke of the temple of His body.  Further still, we find out later in the New Testament that each believer’s body becomes a home for the Holy Spirit–still, Jesus here refers to the the physical Temple, the building, as God’s house.  

This isn’t the first time.  As a young boy missing from his family’s caravan, when found in the Temple, He explained, “Did you not know that I had to be in My Father’s house?” (Luke 2:49).  

All of which is to say, God has a house.  Yes, heaven cannot contain Him.  And for sure, He dwells in every Christian.  But He does have a house, too.  And this, in our day, is not less than the church.  

I know, I know, I know…..the church is not a building, but people.  I know that.  But God’s people meet somewhere, typically in a building of sorts; albeit a home, a cathedral, or a tent.  The place where believers meet, that is the church, and that—this is what stirs my soul–is the Father’s house.  

People these days belittle the church.  Even Christians, they do not feel the need, nor do they have the desire, to gather together with other Christians in a place we call church.  Typically, the reasons fall along these lines:  the people are all hypocrites.  All they want from you is your money.  Or, I don’t have the time.  Much of the reason lies in the fact most Christians don’t read the Bible, so they don’t understand that we are told, “Do not forsake the assembling of yourselves together” (Hebrews 10:25).  Perhaps the greatest reason is that they don’t understand that the church is God’s house.  Worse yet, they don’t care.  

By definition a church is simply an assembly of persons.  In fact, is was used even of secular, non-religious meetings.  Yet for followers of Christ, whenever and wherever they gather together, there is a dynamic absent any other assembly on the face of the earth:  the Lord Jesus is there present among them.  

“For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst” (Matthew 18:20).  

Christians who neglect church–assembling together with other Christians–miss out on the Great Attender, Jesus Christ.  Why bother?  The Lord is there!  Yes, God is everywhere.  You can encounter Him in a forrest or field, on your knees or in the shower.  Yet the Lord does not promise His presence in these places; He promises it when there are two or more of you together in one spot.  

By referring to the Temple as “My Father’s house,” Jesus sanctions the physical location of God’s presence.  We, the people of God, are His house (cf., Hebrews 3:6)–when we are gathered together.

As for me, as much as I love the church, today I receive an attitude adjustment.  I do not love her enough.  I have not esteemed the assembly of saints (i.e., true believers) highly enough.  I have not regarded it as the Father’s house.  Today I do.  

I note with interest the balance of our Lord’s words.  He says, “stop making My Father’s house a place of business.”  These days the church in many respects has become big business.  It has business managers, financial experts, marketing and sales departments.  It has huge budgets, needing much cash to support the physical property it owns.  Not that these are not necessary; as the assembly expands, so the needs to accommodate them.  Yet the church is not a business; if it becomes that, the Lord’s rebuke has been issued.  It is a spiritual entity, an organism as opposed to an organization.   And, given God’s thoughts and ways are not man’s, and His kingdom opposite that of the world’s, it is operated completely different.  Sometimes not even making sense.  

Imagine God, maker of heaven and earth, the one who loves you and who sent His Son to die for you–imagine Him living just down the street, even next door.  Imagine Him inviting you to come visit Him.  This, my friend, requires no imagination.  He is doing just this.  He is beckoning you, “Come see Me.  Come to My house.  You who believe in Me, join with others who believe.  Gather together with My people in My house.  This is church; this is where I am.”

When to Pray

When you don’t know what to do, pray.

When you don’t know how to do a thing, pray.

When in the doing of a thing, you become confused, pray.

When you lack wisdom, pray.

When you lack desire, pray.

When you are tired and lacking strength, pray.

When you are afraid, pray.

When you feel anxious about a thing, pray.

When your job is in jeopardy, pray.

When your marriage is in trouble, pray.

When you lack resources, pray.

When you are sick or otherwise in ill health, pray.

When you are stressed, pray.

When you feel hopeless, pray.

When you need vision, pray.

When you do not know which direction to go, pray.

When faced with a decision to make, any decision, pray.

When you are hurting inside, pray.

When you don’t feel quite right–physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually, pray.

When tragedy strikes, pray.

When in danger, pray.

When embarking on a journey, pray.

When your friend has a need, pray–then do what you can to help him.

When your spouse, or your son or your daughter, or your grandchild, or you friend, strays, pray.

Before you eat, pray.

After you eat, pray.

Before you lay you head upon your pillow, pray.

If you wake up in the morning, it is good cause to pray.

If you can see, hear, smell, taste, touch–if you can do anything at all, pray.

If you have food, clothing, and shelter, pray.

If your body works at all, pray.

If you are beginning a thing, pray.

Or ending a thing, pray.

If going to war, definitely pray.

If you come home from war, pray.

If you live in peace, in any degree of it, pray.

If you are under tyranny, pray.

If you are enslaved by anyone or anything, pray.

If you are free, pray.

If you are at the end of your life, pray. 

If you are pregnant, pray.

When giving birth, pray!

When raising that child, those children, absolutely pray.

When you send them off to school, pray.

When you give your daughter to another man in marriage, pray.

While she is growing up, and well before she ever meets the man she will marry, pray.

If you wish to be forgiven, pray.

Or to be free from a person or thing, pray.

If you have lost your way, pray.

If your heart has become hard, and you know it, pray.

Pray that your heart never becomes hard.

If you want to know the truth about anything, pray.

If you have a job, pray.

If you don’t have a job and are in need of one, pray.

If you are doing well, are well-off, pray.

If you have any need whatsoever, or no need at all, pray.

If you think you’ve no need, then you absolutely must pray.  

If and when anything good comes your way–and it always does, pray.

When it storms, pray.

When it is beautiful outside, pray.

When you meet the man or woman of your dreams, pray.

When you are old and decrepit, it is time to pray.

If you can think straight, pray.  

If you have breath in you, pray.

Pray at all times and in every circumstance, and never, ever give up.  

Luke 18:1, “Now He was telling them a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray and not to lose heart.”

1 Thessalonians 5:17, “Pray without ceasing.”

A Good ‘Thing’

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord” (Proverbs 18:22.

Far from being a ‘thing’, and not just any wife, but a “true and faithful” one (AMP), she is an indispensable aid to a fulfilling life.

But it is not as though that is all she is. Despite being designated as a “helper suitable to him” (Genesis 2:18), under New Testament revelation she is a “joint-heir of the grace of life (1 Peter 3:7). So it is that from the perspective of both, a wife, a good one, is a gift from God. And not only this, if a man wishes favor from the Lord, let him pursue–and find–the woman ordained for him.

Today marks Barb’s and mine 48th wedding anniversary, and we both thank the Lord for His wonderful grace in not only keeping us together all these years, but blessing our relationship with each other. It is not as though we are perfect–Barbara nearly is; me, not so much. But the emphasis here is on her, not me. So I continue.

“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is like rottenness in his bones” (Proverbs 12:4).

You can see here the difference between a good wife and a not-so-good one. I thank God He has given me the former. If a crown here signifies honor, splendor, and dignity (Webster 1828)–which it does, then it is apparent how a true and faithful wife embellishes her husband. The Passion Translation puts it like this, “The integrity and strength of a virtuous wife transforms her husband into an honored king.” You could say that she makes him what he is. Or, behind a righteous man is an even more righteous wife. Or, if a man is perceived to be good, it is his wife that makes him so. Which is why a man ought esteem his wife above himself; if he cares for himself, he will care for his wife more so (see Ephesians 5).

“House and wealth are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord” (Proverbs 19:14).

I mentioned this earlier; your wife is a gift from God. Not just any old wife, mind you, but a prudent one. There are others who are not so; whether they are gifts may be questionable. But a sensible wife? She is from the Lord. The NET Bible Notes gives this explanation,

“This statement describes a wife who has a skillful use of knowledge and discretion that proves to be successful. This contrasts with the preceding verse. The proverb is not concerned about unhappy marriages or bad wives (both of which exist); it simply affirms that when a marriage works out well one should credit it as a gift from God.”

They should say, however, that “when a marriage works out well one should credit it” as a “gift from God,” for sure, but also the wife.

A prudent wife is a wise, sensible, and understanding one. She is wise in practice. Cautious but not hesitating. She likely has a heart larger than her husband, and insight keener than his. Which is why a man ought lister carefully to her. It is a proud man, a stupid one, who does not give his wife the time of day.

A woman like this is hard to find–which is why it says she is a gift from God. Proverbs 31:10 puts it like this: “An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels.” A man who puts his pursuits ahead of his wife makes a big mistake. His treasure is not ‘out there’, but under his nose, in his own home. He is a wealthy man who has an excellent wife. Let Him “trust in her, and he will have no lack of gain.” She will do “him good and not evil all the days of her life” (11-12).

I believe I indicated she makes him what he is. Verse 22 of this chapter says, “Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.”

This has been my experience–thank God. Whenever someone congratulates us on our years of marriage, I always say, “It’s her fault.” Why? Because it is. Barbara is the one who holds this thing together. She is the glue of the marriage. Of course, it is God who does it, but He has given me Barb and uses her in sealing this deal.

Finally, a word on marriage. Of course, it is designed by God to be between a man and a woman (thank God!). It is a mysterious representation of God’s eternal plan for the church and the Lord Jesus (again, Ephesians 5). And, it is intended by God to be “as the days of heaven upon the earth” (Deuteronomy 11:21 KJV). Though on my part I have a very long way to go to being the quality of husband Barbara deserves, especially as it pertains to loving her the way Christ does His church, she on her part is well above and beyond in being the kind of wife the Bible describes as a “good thing.” That she is.

The Ordered Life

I am thinking of the ordered life, what that looks and feels like. I am inclined to interpret that as meaning set patterns or certain routines that I follow every day. It was the Lord who said there would an entire reordering of my life. Then He hit the reset button.

If there be anything predictable about God it’s that He can be unpredictable. He shows up when you least expect Him. He says things you would never in a million years anticipate.

I am thinking the ordered life is not a routine one. On the contrary, I am thinking it is exactly the opposite. The ordered life may well be a disordered one. Meaning, instead of predetermined activities and day-to-day patterns of living, you live life unpredictably.  By this I mean you follow the Holy Spirit’s leading.

Jesus said, “The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit.” The wind–or, breath–is of course the Holy Spirit.  If you live life in the Spirit you may not necessarily know where things are coming from nor where things may be headed. But you can be confident that you are always on course when you are following the Spirit.

Gone then are the pressures to be doing thus and such. Absent is the guilt you feel for not doing certain things you think you should be doing.  You are relieved of all the ‘should-a’, ‘would-a’, and ‘could-a’s’ you think must govern your life.  You’re only concern, really your only responsibility, is to follow the Holy Spirit.

This is what we hear the apostle Paul saying in Galatians 5.  From Kenneth Wuest’s translation we read, “Through the instrumentality of the Spirit habitually order your manner of life.”  And, “In view of the fact that we are being sustained in spiritual life by the Spirit, by means of the Spirit let us go on ordering our conduct.”  Or, as our standard renderings would say, “Walk by the Spirit.”

In practical terms this means abandoning the idea that an ordered life equates to doing certain things at certain times, consistently.  It means stepping out of the box of predictability and into the realm of the Spirit.

It’s not that we’re not faithful in the fulfillment of our responsibilities.  I mean, we all must get up and go to work, attend to personal needs, and so forth.  What life looks like here is keeping in step with God. “As many as are led by the Spirit, these are the sons of God.”  It means hearing His voice and patterning your day-to-day accordingly. If we plan, and we must and do plan, it is in and by the Spirit we make our plans.

The Scripture says, “To him who orders his way aright, I shall show the salvation of God.”  That is, if we set our course as that of the Spirit’s, we shall see great and glorious things.